Here’s my problem, my husband is having an affair with a lady who is around my age – she’s around my age so I know it isn’t the fact that I’m becoming “expired”. I try to keep it together as I really don’t want to do the whole divorce thing and everything else in my life is going well … I have a thriving career, I’m where I want and need to be in life; I really don’t need something like this throwing me off course but at the same time, I don’t want him to think I’m stupid and that I don’t know what’s going on. I’m even starting to question if it’s all my fault … how should I approach the situation? Is it really my fault?
Tola is a character in FIFTY, a riveting and emotional feature film production of EbonyLife Film executively produced by Mo Abudu. Tola is played by Dakore Egbuson-Akande. If you were in Tola’s shoes would you confront your husband, or play the fool? Would you be scared to start your life all over again? Is she responsible for the situation she’s in? Share your views
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Dere is no need to confront ur husband just live him to enjoye n pray to God for a change in ur husband life, n strongly believe he will change
ReplyDeleteif she is too engaged with work and does not have the time to play her role as a wife, then is her fault. Other wise men are men and no matter what you do for or with them they are bound to cheat on you. One thing i will advice her is to take a bold step and confront him with the issue in a very professional and respecful manner, maybe that can help the situation. The more she keeps it the more she gets hurt and that is not healthy
ReplyDeletedo not leave him all you need to do Pray and make sure you do all you need to do as a wife than everything will be fine .
ReplyDeleteI want her to pray for God's intervention & also play all her role as a wife should.
ReplyDeletePls do u carry ur duties as his wife?play ur roll as his wife give him what he need.
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ReplyDeleteCheating on ur wife or girl friend is bad but many women also created such problame by not giving to their man demand
ReplyDeleteHi dear just serve him with respect as if you do not know what is doing, give him all the support that he needs and things will work out. Don't confront him, May the almighty God give you strength and be happy.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you busy with other things like your career, that's why i cn't get married to celeb
ReplyDeletecos it still's you away from your home, jst talk to him ok communication is powerful
silence is dangerous
continue to play a good wife role to your husband, no matter what he has been doing to make you unhappy.Men will always be men.God has given them the liberty to cheat,keep praying for him and i belief he would turn to a new leave.
ReplyDeleteContinue to be a good wife to your husband and make sure you are playing your role both morally and sexually. God has given our men the liberty to cheat unless if he's a really God fearing one, but continue with your prayers and i am very sure he would turn to a new leave.
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